The Hidden Privilege of Solo Travel: Why Not Everyone Can Just Pack a Bag
The dream is seductive… Just you, a passport, a single backpack, and a world that’s yours to claim.
It sounds like the most beautiful freedom and for many, it is. I’ve felt it, the thrill of stepping into an unknown airport, completely on my own terms.
But here’s the truth we scroll past: not everyone can just pack a bag and go.
In this post, I’ll share the hidden layers of solo travel from passport power and financial access to safety and social perception that decides who gets to explore our world, and how we can turn our own privilege into responsible travel.
While our feeds are full of solo female travelers hiking volcanoes and sipping iced lattes in Bali, we rarely talk about the invisible foundation behind it all: privilege.
The power of your passport and the freedom to take time off work show that solo travel is a luxury, wrapped in an Instagram filter.
What “Solo Travel Freedom” Really Means
Let’s talk numbers, because they tell a powerful story. According to a recent Booking.com survey, over 40% of global travellers planned a solo trip in 2024, and the majority were women. On Instagram, the hashtag #solofemaletravel boasts over 9 million posts of sun-kissed, liberating moments.
It’s a revolution, and it’s beautiful. But it’s not the whole picture.
I had my own awakening while comparing travel stories with friends. The solo travel boom tells two different stories. For some, it’s a story of seamless, digital freedom. For others, it’s a narrative of overcoming significant bureaucratic challenges.
Most of the time, with my passport, I can arrange my entire trip with a few clicks online. In contrast, a Nigerian friend dedicated weeks to collecting documents for a visa, while another faced distrust at border control simply for being a solo traveler from a country with fewer visa-free agreements. It’s the difference between a spontaneous adventure and a part-time job in administrative anxiety. That’s when I saw the truth: my easy travel freedom was a privilege I had always taken for granted.
Passport Privilege: The Golden Ticket No One Talks About
Imagine this: You see a last-minute flight deal to Japan. If you hold a German, Spanish, or U.S. passport, you can book it. Visa-free. You’re basically already packing.
Now, imagine you’re from Afghanistan, Nigeria, or Eritrea. But for many, that spontaneous dream runs into complicated rules and paperwork. The Henley Passport Index makes this very clear: a powerful passport grants access to nearly 190 countries visa-free. A less powerful one? That number can plummet to fewer than 50.
This is passport privilege… the unearned advantage stamped into a little blue or green booklet. It’s the difference between a spontaneous adventure and a stressful, expensive gamble that might end in “visa denied.”
Accepting this isn’t about guilt. It’s about awareness. It’s about realizing that our mobility is a lottery win, making us more compassionate, more grateful travelers.
The Privilege of Choice
Solo travel is about one of life’s biggest luxuries: choice.
- The choice to go.
- The choice to explore.
- The choice to be yourself in a foreign place.
Every time I zip up my suitcase, I think of the women who taught me about resilience but may never see an airport lounge. The single mothers working three jobs… The students with high family expectations… My freedom to travel alone comes with a responsibility to remember them and to make my travels count for more than just pretty photos.
Even small choices matter like using a water LARQ bottle to stay hydrated while cutting down on single-use plastic during your travels. I use the bottle from LARQ and I love it!
Many women around the world dream of that choice but don’t yet have it.
When I walk through airports with my backpack and my Kinder Bueno, I still feel that thrill of freedom. But now, it’s mixed with humility. Every stamp in my passport reminds me of where I’ve been but also of the privilege that got me there.
A Personal Story:
I’ll never forget planning a reunion trip to Turkey with two friends. One from Italy, one from Turkey who was living abroad with us. For my Italian friend and I, it was a quick online form. For our Turkish friend, it meant a day off work, traveling to the embassy in another city for appointments, providing six months of bank statements, and waiting weeks for approval… only to get a visa valid for exactly 5 days.
This is passport privilege: the unearned advantage that decides whether travel is spontaneous or a stressful experience.
Acknowledging this isn’t about guilt. It’s about awareness. It’s about realizing that our
The Financial Reality: 'Budget Travel' Isn't Always Cheap
Even “budget” travel costs money. Flights, visas, travel insurance, accommodation, gear… it adds up fast. A 2023 Statista report found that the average solo trip in Europe costs around €1,500.
And that’s not including the hidden income loss for those who don’t have paid vacation days, such as freelancers, contractors, or gig economy workers. But for many women, that simply isn’t possible.This brings us to time privilege. Having a job that offers generous vacation days or the flexibility to work remotely.
As a freelancer, I have to constantly check my privilege. The remote work lifestyle isn’t the global norm. It’s a modern luxury that allows some of us to explore while others are bound by tight schedules and financial realities.
The Hidden Economic Divide
We see influencers spending ‘$30 a day,’ but not the $800 flight, the $200 insurance, the new backpack.It’s like seeing a movie trailer without the ticket price. For women living paycheck to paycheck, saving that initial $1,500 is impossible when choosing between travel and rent. I’ve met women who’ve saved for years for one trip, while others can fund adventures from a single month’s disposable income. That disparity is about economic reality.
For many women, that’s simply out of reach. This brings us to the time privilege of having a job that offers vacation days or remote work flexibility.
Safety, Race & Culture: We Don’t All Travel the Same
The phrase “solo female travel” feels empowering. But its reality is shaped by race, class, and culture.
A white woman walking through Marrakech might receive curious looks. A Black or Brown woman might face harassment. A woman from a conservative background might face family disapproval before she even buys her ticket.
This is exactly why resources like my essential Women of Color Solo Travel Guide are so important for navigating these complex realities with preparation and confidence. On a personal level, I also try to make my trips smoother and more intentional by using GetYourGuide because it helps me spend less time stressing over logistics and more time actually enjoying and booking the tours and experiences I want.
Safety in Solo Female Travel: Beyond the Myth of “Just Avoid Dark Alleys”
For women traveling alone, safety is more than avoiding dark alleys at night. It’s also can you trust the local police if you’re harassed? Will a hotel receptionist treat you with professionalism, regardless of your skin color?
As a Black solo traveler, I’ve seen this double standard. While some of my white friends move through airports and borders with unquestioned ease, Black friends have been pulled aside and subjected to humiliating “human trafficking” suspicions for the simple act of traveling alone. This is a lived reality that forces us to plan for risks many travelers never have to consider.
A 2022 Booking.com report confirmed that safety is a concern with 70% of women globally mentioning it as their top priority when traveling alone! Some of us can walk freely at night in a foreign city. Others can’t even do that at home.
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How to Turn Privilege into Purposeful Travel
So, what do we do with this awareness? We don’t stop travelling. We start travelling better with more empathy, intention, and cultural sensitivity. Think of it as an essential upgrade for your traveler’s soul, and a core part of modern solo travel for women.
Here’s how to turn your privilege into purpose and become a more conscious traveler. These solo female travel tips go beyond the guidebooks:
- 💝 Support Local Women: Actively seek out and support local women-led businesses.
- 🗣️ Share the Full Story: Talk about the costs, the fears, and the visa struggles, not just the sunsets.
- 📢 Share Diverse Voices: Follow and share stories from women of color, LGBTQ+ travelers, and women from developing countries.
- 🕊️ Rethink “Freedom”: It’s movement, it’s safety, acceptance, and opportunity.
- 🙏🏽 Be a Guest, Not a Tourist: Learn local customs, support sustainable travel, and give back.
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What I Wish I Knew Before My First Solo Trip
Privilege isn’t a dirty word. Understanding it is the first step toward traveling with empathy and respect, rather than just entitlement.
- Your emotional backpack matters as much as your physical one. The journey can bring up unexpected feelings.
- The most powerful travel tool is gratitude. Shifting my focus from what I was “conquering” to what I was being allowed to experience changed everything.
Mini FAQ: For Solo Traveler
Is talking about privilege just meant to make people feel guilty?
Not at all. The goal is awareness, not guilt. Guilt is passive, awareness is active. It empowers us to travel more thoughtfully, support local communities better, and advocate for a world where travel is more accessible to all.
I don’t have a powerful passport or a big budget. Does this mean I can’t travel?
Absolutely not! It means your journey might look different and that’s okay. It might involve more regional travel, slower overland journeys, or different kinds of adventures. The spirit of exploration is universal, even if the paths we take are not. As one of my favorite inspiration quotes reminds me: “The world is a book, and those who do not travel read only one page.” Your story is just as important.
How can I be a more conscious traveler with the privilege I have?
Start with the mindset of mindful travel and cultural sensitivity. Be a guest, not a tourist. Research your destinations thoroughly, learn a few words of the local language, and make a conscious effort to support local economies, especially women-led businesses.
Final Thoughts – Last Stop Before Takeoff!
Solo travel is about one of life’s greatest luxuries: choice. The choice to go. The choice to change your mind. The choice to be unapologetically yourself in a strange land.
Countless women around the world dream of that choice but don’t yet have it. So if you do, wield it with gratitude and humility.
Now, when I walk through airports with my backpack and my Kinder Bueno (my little travel ritual), I still feel that old, familiar joy. But it’s now layered with a profound sense of responsibility. Every stamp in my passport is a reminder not just of where I’ve been, but of the privilege that carried me there. Adventure on, I’ll see you on the road!
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