The Unapologetic Guide to Solo Travel for Women of Color
Traveling solo is an adventure that many dream about. But traveling solo as a Woman of Color? Now that’s a whole different story, part excitement, part “Wait, did they just stare at me for five minutes?” kind of challenge. A story filled with excitement and sometimes a bit of extra challenge.
In this post, I’ll share my experiences traveling to more than 56 countries and the lessons I’ve learned. And why every woman of color should feel empowered to take that step to travel alone.
Why I Chose to Travel Solo
Let’s rewind to the moment I booked my first solo trip. I was curious. The idea of finding my way through new streets, airports, and cultures on my own felt like an exciting challenge. Plus, I figured if I got lost, I could blame the GPS and not my travel buddy.
Of course, questions came up. As a black woman, would people welcome me? Would they see me, respect me, and include me?—but those questions only sparked my curiosity more. I wanted to see for myself. Spoiler alert: Some people stared like I was an alien, others acted like I was their long-lost cousin.
As I shared my journey, people started asking, “Do you feel safe?” “Do people treat you differently?” and those questions pushed me to look closer. I began to notice the deeper layers of my experience. I started speaking up more, sharing what it means to be seen, to belong, and why representation matters. That decision to travel solo opened the door to a whole new world.
Fast-forward, after countless flights and journeys, I realized that while the world can sometimes stare, it also welcomes and surprises you. Often when you least expect it.
Traveling solo gave me freedom like no other experience. I could be myself… loud laugh, curious questions, and all without having to explain or dim my light for anyone. It was a journey into confidence, and sometimes awkward moments, I now laugh about.
One time in Sofia, I noticed people staring at me while waiting for my coffee in a coffee shop. At first, I felt self-conscious, but then I reminded myself that this is part of traveling as a Woman of Color. Instead of shrinking away, I smiled and greeted a local nearby. That small connection changed everything.
Moments like this teach me that when people stare, it can actually be a good thing. Sometimes it’s curiosity or a chance to connect. When it happens, breathe, stay grounded, and look for the positive.
The Reality of Solo Travel for Women of Color
Solo female travel isn’t always sunshine and filtered Instagram posts. There are moments when you feel invisible and moments when you feel like a spotlight is on you for all the wrong reasons.
What to Expect – The Good:
- Waking up in a new city where everything smells different and tastes exciting
- Making spontaneous decisions without having to compromise
- Meeting people who become your travel family
What to Expect –The Challenging:
- The occasional stares, double takes, or whispered questions when you walk into spaces where you’re the only woman of color
- Navigating safety with an extra level of awareness, which means trusting your gut 100%
- Handling microaggressions or stereotypes, even from well-meaning strangers who think to compliment you with comments like “You don’t look really Black.” (Like, is there a Black Barbie standard I missed?)
Every challenge has been an opportunity to grow, to educate, and to reclaim my narrative. Some moments were annoying, and I tried to educate people, but not always with success (I mean, who has the energy all the time?).
My Top 14 Tips for Thriving as a Solo Woman of Color Traveler
After visiting over 56 countries, mostly solo, I’ve got essential tips to help you travel safely and confidently, as a Woman of Color. And some include “How to look like you know what you’re doing even when you don’t.”
Safety Beyond the Basics
- Essential Protection: I never travel without reliable insurance like SafetyWing. Their nomad-friendly plans cover unexpected medical issues and trip interruptions. It’s my first step in feeling confident and prepared.
- Do Your Research With a Race-Conscious Lens: Before your trip, look beyond general travel blogs. Find resources that discuss what it’s like traveling as a Black woman or woman of color in your destination. Platforms like Travel Noire offer honest stories and advice. Understanding the cultural context and challenges helps you find safe spaces and set realistic expectations.
- Learn Basic Phrases in the Local Language to Assert Yourself: Knowing how to say things like “I need help,” “No, thank you,” or “Where is a safe place?” in the local language empowers you instantly. It signals confidence and helps reduce vulnerability when navigating unfamiliar environments.
- Keep a Support System and Safety Signals Ready: Even when you’re traveling solo, stay connected with loved ones through regular check-ins on WhatsApp or similar apps. This helps to calm down the worries on both sides. Before your trip, set up a simple code word or signal with trusted friends or local contacts. If you ever feel unsafe or uncomfortable, you can ask for help without drawing attention, giving you an extra layer of safety and peace of mind. Staying safe is also about protecting your energy. These solo travel self-care hacks help you do both.
Find Your Tribe
- Connect With Other Women of Color Travelers: There’s power in community. Join Facebook groups, explore Instagram hashtags like #WomenOfColorTravel, or become part of travel tribes such as Nomadness Travel Tribe. These networks provide support, advice, and travel buddies who understand your experience as a solo black traveler.
- Local connection tip: Book small group tours through GetYourGuide to meet other travelers while exploring safely. Their “local experience” filters help find authentic, non-touristy activities.
- Research Local Black or POC Communities & Events: Look for cultural centers, meetups, or events where you can connect with the local Black community or other people of color. These spaces often provide safety, solidarity, and a joyful sense of belonging beyond tourist spots. If you don’t find established communities nearby, consider connecting with online groups or forums focused on your destination. Sometimes virtual connections can offer support and advice as well.
Own Your Narrative
- Pack Essentials That Boost Your Confidence: Comfort is important, but feeling like yourself is just as important. Pack items that make you feel confident, like a bold lipstick, a scarf you can wear as a headwrap, or comfortable walking shoes. These essentials help you face the world with confidence and pride in your identity. And of course, don’t forget a stash of snacks, because nobody likes being hungry. I always have chocolate with me.
- Health essential: My LARQ bottle purifies water anywhere… no “travel tummy” ruining your confidence when you’re traveling solo.
- Extra Tip: Get a free Packing Checklist to help you pack smart without the stress.
- Prepare for Microaggressions: But don’t let them define you. Sadly, you may face stereotypes or microaggressions. Sometimes, even from well-meaning strangers, such as: “You don’t look really Black.” “Can I touch your hair?” “You’re so exotic.” “Are you mixed?” “You’re so pretty for a Black woman.” While some try to compliment, it can feel awkward or tiring. I’ve learned to respond with humor, educate gently when I can, or keep shining without letting these moments weigh me down.
Here are some examples of how you might respond confidently:
Microaggression: “You’re so exotic!”
Empowered Response: “Actually, I’m from [City]. What’s your favorite local spot?”
Microaggression: “You don’t sound Black.”
Empowered Response: “And you don’t sound ignorant… yet here we are.”
Microaggression: “Can I touch your hair?”
Empowered Response: “Only if I can touch yours first!”
Microaggression: “Are you mixed?”
Empowered Response: “I’m a beautiful blend of cultures.”
Microaggression: “You’re so pretty for a Black woman.”
Empowered Response: “Thank you! Beauty comes in all shades.”
- Practice Self-Compassion and Prepare for Emotional Ups and Downs
- Solo travel stirs many feelings: joy, loneliness, pride, and doubt. Give yourself grace during tough moments. Journaling, meditation apps, or allowing space for your emotions can help you process your journey emotionally and grow from it.
- Set Boundaries Without Apology: Speak up clearly about your comfort and safety. When dealing with strangers or kind locals, setting clear boundaries protects your energy and helps you enjoy your trip your way. It’s your journey, and your peace matters most.
My guide to Solo Travel Fear? A Woman’s Guide to Crushing It shares tips to beat travel anxiety and embrace solo adventures with confidence.
Why Solo Travel is the Ultimate Act of Empowerment for Women of Color
You might ask: “Why push myself to travel alone when it feels daunting?”
Here’s why solo travel is worth it:
You might ask: “Why push myself to travel alone when it feels daunting?”
Here’s why solo travel is worth it:
- You reclaim your story: By traveling solo, you rewrite narratives about who you are and what you’re capable of.
- You build resilience: Facing new places and people grows your strength in unexpected ways.
- You break stereotypes: Simply by being present and visible, you challenge outdated ideas about Women of Color.
- You discover your freedom: Traveling solo gives you space to explore your desires, limits, and joys without filters.
One of my most daring moves? Going solo to Antarctica.
What I Wish I Knew Before My First Solo Trip
- You can feel your fear and move forward anyway. Fear is part of growth. Take it as a signal you’re stepping into new territory.
- You don’t need to do everything alone. Sometimes booking a group tour for a day or two helps ease into solo travel.
- Your identity is your superpower. You bring a unique perspective and beauty wherever you go. Don’t shy away from it.
- Mistakes will happen, and that’s okay. Lost luggage? Wrong bus? Take care of it, laugh it off, and keep going.
One of my favorite quotes to keep me motivated:
For more inspiring travel quotes, see 33 Solo Travel Inspiration Quotes.
Mini FAQ: Common Solo Travel As a woman of Color & Safety Questions
Is solo travel safe for women of color?
With good preparation and awareness, yes! Safety varies by destination, so research local laws, customs, and neighborhoods. Countries like Japan, New Zealand, and Portugal are generally safe, but always trust your instincts and plan ahead.
How do you handle it when people stare at you?
Stay confident and calm. You can politely educate, ignore, or simply keep moving. Practical tips: carry headphones to appear less approachable, have a friendly response ready, or blend in with local fashion when possible.
How to manage loneliness?
Solo travel can feel isolating at times. Join local groups, attend tours, or meet fellow travelers online. Keep in touch with loved ones and embrace your own company—journaling or exploring hobbies can help you enjoy the freedom of solo time.
What if I face racism abroad?
Seek support from local communities, online networks, or fellow travelers. Know your rights in that country, and always remember your worth. Document incidents if needed, and practice self-care to process any negative experiences.
How to start solo travel if scared?
Start small: try a weekend trip nearby or short retreats. Travel with friends first if it helps, then gradually go solo. Practice independent decision-making locally to build confidence.
Are there resources for Women of Color travelers?
Absolutely! Communities like Travel Noire and Nomadness Travel Tribe are amazing for tips, support, and networking. Safety apps like bSafe or TripWhistle, solo travel blogs, podcasts, and books can also help you prepare.
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